So in a recent interview, Tonto Dikeh revealed her marriage was a huge mistake, stating that her ex-husband was married to another woman before he got married to her.
Tonto Dikeh in the interview also revealed that she just ended a custody case in court which she did not make known to the public. According to her, she is born again and celibate until she gets married again. (Read here)
Churchill seems to be responding to Tonto’s claim in a cryptic Instagram post, captioned: “One bad chapter doesn’t mean your story is over”
His quote reads: “You can’t change what has already happened, so don’t waste your time thinking about it. Move on, let go, and get over it.”
Speaking further in the interview, Tonto said she doesn’t even think she was ever married ; “If you want to talk about me and my ex-husband that’s different but I will not even glorify that because he’s eating off my energy and my stardom and I don’t want that anymore. I don’t even think I was ever married because he was married to someone else while I was married to him,”
See excerpt from the interview:
Let us look at your family life, where you are coming from. Have you totally dropped those ugly experiences from your marriage?
Yes I have. Definitely at some point you heal, everybody heals at some point
You got healed quickly, so soon?
It’s a choice, if you want to stay down it’s your choice but strength is a woman’s thing and I have it.
Let us talk about family a bit. Will you get married the second time?
Absolutely! I will, but for now I’m just trying to do so much and that’s why it’s not at the forefront.
As a beautiful young lady, can you really take sex out of your life?
Well, I’m born again and I’m celibate.
How long will that last for you?
I don’t know how long that is going to last. Maybe till I get married.
Let’s talk about romance a little more.
Right now the only thing that can interest me in a man is his love for God and his love for my son, if you have any of them at 99% and not 100, then my answer is no.
You have to be financially stable, I am not going to help a man grow anymore. You have to be financially strong enough to take care of me; I’m tired of being the moneybag.
Do you still interact with your ex husband, to come and play a fatherly role to his son?
Recently, we just ended a court case which I did not publicise because I respect my son so much , anything that concerns my son I try as much as possible to keep it on the wraps. We just finished a custody battle case and a child support case.
And you won?
Yes I did. But those things are personal to me and also out of respect for my son, I’ll never talk about something that concerns him. If you want to talk about me and my ex-husband that’s different but I will not even glorify that because he’s eating off my energy and my stardom and I don’t want that anymore.
I don’t even think I was ever married because he was married to someone else while I was married to him.
Do you think your marriage was a mistake?
Yes, it was a huge mistake but then again how can a mistake produce such a wonderful gift, that is all I keep saying to myself. How it happened is something I have forgotten about. Part of the healing process is not going back to it. I’m done. (Read more)