Simi In Battle of Words With Pastor Kingsley Okonkwo Over Sermon
Pastor Kingsley Okonkwo of David’s Christian Center, made some assertions in a recent sermon that did not sit well with singer, Simi.
According to the Pastor who posted an excerpt from the sermon on his Instagram handle, the reason why we have many single men who are not even eager to get married is because they are already getting sexual satisfaction without marriage. This is largely because young ladies are allowing themselves to be used.
In his words:
“As a lady, you need need to understand that men are not as emotionally developed as women. Women know what they want from childhood. The average teenage girl has dreams of how her wedding will be. Men as a teenager is just playing ball, he has no dreams of settling down.
He wants sex, men want sex not relationship. God put so much sexual passion in men, expecting that women will obey Him by doing access denied, so that if he wants so much sex he should marry. So, he will give you what you want, you will give him what he wants. That was how God planned it, but many women have been sabotaging themselves. So you have been giving it out to people that didn’t put a ring on it.
This is why we have so many single people because a lot of guys are sexually satisfied. Men enjoy sex with more people, than with one person. So, you are messing up and sabotaging yourself by giving out free sex. If you do national lock up, these men will marry. Trust me.”
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Excepts from the Manual…. to get full message go to www.lovedatingandmarriage. Org or reach @ldmwithpk PLS NOTE they were only WOMEN in this hall (about 2000 of them) so the message was for women, we also speak to men, the male version was held a week after and had thousands of men too (titled MANDATE ) message also available on the website so pls don’t come and say what of the men…. And if you still want to know why we kind of address wome more it’s simple- women are the ones affected more by bad relationships, women are the ones that feel used when sex is involved, women get pregnant, women abort or stay with the baby, women deal with the shame so that’s why we try to protect women. Oh and by the way I agree that more should be done to mentor men and we are already working on different things to achieve that.
Simi who recently tied the knots with her long time lover and fellow singer, Adekunle Gold, blazed hot with her comment on the post where she expressed her disappointment in the Pastor for making men feel like they are not to be blamed if they act irresponsibly.
Pastor Kingsley tried explaining that his message was not an attempt to demean the female gender but Simi wouldn’t have any of it. See the exchange below: